It was a time of wanting the other person’s full undivided attention all the time. Whether it may be texting one another, calling one another, or being in the same place together in a coffee shop – just any time needed to be my time, is the thought that runs in my mind.
I was jealous of his time. At the time, this is not so obvious, right?
That is, most often, what happens at the beginning of a relationship after a month or two. The relationship was beginning to blossom, all the while it was important to be attentive to the maintenance and development of one’s own character. Otherwise, one with mental illness, depression, and anxiety can fall into the trap of becoming irrational in decision-making or emotion-making.
Let’s say the other person is passionate from the beginning and speaks from his heart. And, the new love was not as eager. After much convincing they began to turn to each other with this passion, the same passion that shares one’s heart. Where is God in all this?
It may seem He is not there! But He is actually present keeping the relationship holy, while the feelings that are not really born of God (I think) are also there, from keeping the relationship full of thoughts of physical desires between the couple.
One sure feeling or emotion is jealousy. The desire between the couple has led to putting important daily tasks on stress mode because both parties want to be with the other in a physical location. This arouses suspicion as to the validity of the feelings that are holy.
On the other hand, a relationship with God watching over (and he is always there), will calm these feelings of angst and stress and the couple would be able to carry on their daily routines with some adjustments for each other’s benefit. This benefit is St Thomas Aquinas’ teaching that to love is to will the good of the other.
So, next time, your new love needs to attend to her or his duties, be polite and encouraging that you are aware of the need for these tasks to be accomplished and that you will communicate with each other soon.
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Sidenote: It seems important to maintain your good characteristics before the relationship, as time passes. Thus, enabling growing closer together and in Truth.
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